I get it! Sometimes bad things can happen in life! Life is not perfect and unexpected as we know! But did you see how I said SOMETIMES?
If you spend most days worrying about something bad happening and give yourself stress and anxiety, it is definitely a problem you want to solve.
1. What is the point of living in fear?
2. You are not really present, because you are always in preparation mode for the future. Life is in the now!
Why do you have this fear?
Well, it is very simple. You are obsessed with controlling the future.
You want to prepare for the future and be ready for all kinds of scenarios that may arise.
This contradiction, between our hopes to control and our inability to do so, is often the cause of much distress. At best, it leaves us disappointed, and at the worst, crippled with misery.
LEARN TO SURRENDER!
Surrender literally means to stop fighting. Stop fighting with yourself. Stop fighting the universe and the natural flow of things. Stop resisting and pushing against reality.
Trust that your life is going to unfold as it is meant to be.
Your obsession with the future and controlling it, is not going to change ANYTHING. What is meant to be will be!